She got distant because you start getting too “serious” and deep… before you even had sex with her. – Mike My Comments: She Went Distant Because You Got “Serious” too Fast I feel like a stupid high school kid even though I’m 26 and she’s 24. I felt devastated cuz she is such an awesome girl and I want her really bad. She still slept by my side while I hugged her and she let me sleep with my hands on her boobs. She said we could still stay the same way as before and nothing would change, so we could stay as close friends with benefits but the sex would have to come later on. I call bullshit and think she doesn’t want to be vulnerable. She even said she sensed we had sexual chemistry, but said she didnt feel the same relationship-type chemistry that she felt with her ex. She said that we got along perfectly, that I understood her like no one else, and that she felt like we would even be a great fit in bed. She said I was really special and explained that she acted in this distant way because she actually felt something, and that if it was just a hookup she wouldn’t have minded. She said to me that she still liked me and everything was fine but she wasn’t ready for a relationship. During that day we had a good yet awkward time, cuz she suddenly behaved a little more distant, the food wasn’t very good, the festival was cool but it wasn’t her cup of tea yet she still enjoyed my company.įinally she didn’t want to have sex and we only made out, quite reluctantly. Then I asked her out again and we went to a music festival and stayed at a hotel. She was falling in love, but yet still backing off, saying that she didn’t want any commitment. Our “phone – relationship” got deep very quickly and she started feeling more things for me and she couldn’t wait to see me again. She lived about 2 hours away from me so we could only meet on weekends because of jobs and college. Now she says she wants to be alone forever, yet she still feels things for that douche. She says she hasn’t had a relationship for over a year and she still can’t forget that guy who treated her like shit. We called and texted all the time and she said she started feeling things for me. She always insisted that she only wanted fun, we met and we clicked instantly. I met this girl on tinder, we talked a lot and got along really well. Question #1: “She Wants to Slow Down the Relationship” Use “The Scrambler” to Re-Attract Her Back.My Comments: You Tried to Be Her Boyfriend too Soon.Question #2: She Says She Wants to Take a Step Back.My Comments: She Went Distant Because You Got “Serious” too Fast.Question #1: “She Wants to Slow Down the Relationship”.If the list of things you do not have in common is longer than the list of things you do have in common, then this may be a reason to break it off. Try making a list of values, beliefs, and goals that you have in common with your girlfriend, and a separate list of values, beliefs, and goals that you do not have in common.Or, if one of you wants kids and the other one does not, then this could cause serious problems down the road. For example, if you value time with family and friends more than money and professional success, then this could be a problem if your girlfriend is really focused on her career right now. If you find that you are often fighting because you value different things, then this might be a sign that the relationship will not work out. It's okay to have some differences, but major differences like different religious beliefs, life goals, or other important things may interfere with a harmonious relationship. Sometimes relationships do not work out because your values and goals are not compatible with the other person's values and goals.
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